2B - Matt is right on. He has come a long way, as have you and I, too. It's been 1 year since BD for me too, and I felt like i was approaching my limit too, but lo and behold, H has now contacted a lawyer and mediator and is getting things going. And you know what? I think I feel relieved. I 'stood' for a year, but I knew I couldn't do it much longer. I feel better now that it's moving in SOME direction, although it's not the direction I want. I wish you better luck than Matt and I have had. You do deserve better. Hang in there, and keep praying...


Me 53, XH 57
M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids
BD June '13
H moved out July '13
Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14
H filed for D Nov. '14
D March '15