Ok..you got me right there! An analogy is in order here.

You have an abandoned baby squirrel in your hand. Now...you are responsible for its care. The first thing is gentleness, right? You can't handle it roughly from the get go. You start feeding the baby squirrel using ear drop dispenser. You don't feed it with a regular baby bottle. It won't work at all.

Same here with your interactions with W. Don't forget the ear drop dispenser when approaching her.

Hey, I am not eloquent tonight...but I think the point gets across to here...no?