I have talked to female friends - they do offer some insight to the female mind. Though I'm finding that nobody's opinion really matters except my own and my wife's if we are going to get through this.

But when you say "I'm attracted to her" it raises a flag.

Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015