Wow pbetra, I was just posting on your thread while you were posting on mine! My D14 was there the last time my W had her fit of rage because I politely asked to keep a clock we had bought! All I did was say I would like to keep this and before I could answer she went nutty and ran around, took the laptop and said she would take this if I took the clock, went on a rage in front of both the kids and her best friend (who looked like she wanted to crawl into a hole!). I think that is why my D called, to let me know her mom was there! She see's how crazy her mom has become and it is so sad. I just hate to put her on the spot when she has the key and her mom wants to come in my house. It will have to be done as I will not leave my D14 without a key to the ONLY HOME SHE HAS EVER KNOWN until her mother moved out a month ago.
My W said that D doesn't hurt kids, it's how the parents act. Well, so far she hasn't been acting in a way that is anything less than hurtful!
