Hi pbetra, I know how hard it is living with the MLC. So sorry to hear about how he is acting. Wonka, an ex MLCer himself has said that the MLC doesn't want us to have any "fun" or to be at all happy. They figure if they aren't happy we shouldn't be either! How dare we have a life when we have caused them so much misery! My W has taken to entering my home to take what she feels is "hers"! I have told her not to do this ever again but I got a call from my D14 from my home today (she was supposed to be at her mom's) and found out she was there with her Step mother in tow (the OW that her dad put his businesses in to keep away from her mom, the woman who broke up her family and now has started calling "mom"!). She said her mom needed my D's birth certificate but took ALL the papers and the fireproof cabinet! She also took other things and I'm not done checking everywhere yet!
I called my L and he will have to file with the court to stop her. My W says that since her name is still on the deed that it's her house too and she can come and go as she pleases! Wrong! This is no longer HER home. She knows better than this and did this on purpose knowing I would be at work. I really don't get the sense of entitlement that the MLC has. If I were to go into her home she would have a fit (I'm not on the lease but even if I were I wouldn't do something that obviously wrong). Now I'm going to have my L get the safe and it's contents back from her and it will cost her a lot of money to have her L answer. I don't know who she is anymore. The lying has gotten worse, the manipulation of me and my D14 is getting worse and worse every day. She has lost all morals.
Don't expect any different from your H. He knows full well you can hear him behind the doors of "his room" (like a teenager has their room). He wants to hurt you and I for one really hate him for that. You have been brave, even supportive towards him and very understanding, how dare he want to hurt you for that!
Hang in the pbetra, you are seeing first hand that this is a long, long road and you are still just getting started! We are all routing for you!!
