just reading of your experience & it is enough to make someone pull their hair out. Crazy! I'm no expert but think you handled it the right way re: lawyer. She has trespassed & she has stolen property ... I just don't know how that 'pans out' from a legal standpoint. Pity re: the locks - you may have to change them going forward. Do it soon I think - no telling when W may be back ... may be never, but its hard to know the inner workings of the erractic MLCer mind!
Give your D14 a set of keys & tell her that the only people who have new keys are you both & no one else. It's just the way it has to be at the moment - & you are not able to go into it/ or elaborate.
I do hope you do something to give your anger expression if the anger lingers on. These people can make us sick.
Take care, p
pbetra ---- M: 15 yrs (in 2014) BD: 6/03/2014 Infidelity ('known' from July 2014) Denied PA Feb 2015 2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact. Back briefly 2017 (after family death) Separated 2017