I was actually referring to her not putting all of her eggs into one basket. She still plans to move to Florida, right? If things don't work out there, then she always has you waiting back home as her backup plan.
What brought her out of the fog she was in less than a week ago, when she told you goodbye? You thought you would never see her again, so she must have made a believer out of you then, also.
Her reasons for not reversing her decision to move just doesn't hold water. If I was serious about reconciling with my H, I don't think I would have a problem not moving to another state just b/c plans were already in motion. But I guess that's just me.
I hate to see you set up for another painful letdown. I think you are seeing what you want to see.
I wish you all the best and hope it works out.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
