To add even another option, Lol!, I would just talk about it on the phone. UNLESS, you can do an unbelievable job at presenting the very best Shining while meeting face to face.

I went from NC to responding to communication (NEVER initiate), but avoid face to face right now. So, I'm not being cold, but I just don't think meeting face to face right now is good for ME. So I'm not.

If you have any reservations about face to face, I would defer it. Just my .02


Me: 39
H: 45
Second marriage for both
H left 12/2013
M:4 T:5.5