To add even another option, Lol!, I would just talk about it on the phone. UNLESS, you can do an unbelievable job at presenting the very best Shining while meeting face to face.
I went from NC to responding to communication (NEVER initiate), but avoid face to face right now. So, I'm not being cold, but I just don't think meeting face to face right now is good for ME. So I'm not.
If you have any reservations about face to face, I would defer it. Just my .02
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5