I don't know if this is the right or wrong thing to advise but just an observation. As I read through your latest posts I keep thinking 'be careful, don't push too hard too fast'

Maybe I'm projecting because that's been one of my biggest mistakes. It's hard not to get all wound up when it seems like there's *some* hope.

A friendship doesn't seem like a bad start. Also, do you think he still needs time to mourn OW? It's awful but seems to often be a significant factor in their ability to reconnect with LBS.

M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14