Man - they're not paying me to advertise counsellors. This hour was worth it! Especially since mine found and read my thread beforehand. Saved a lot of time!
All in all, I didn't do THAT bad. No techniques would have worked at the moment, and things I say make their way through her head, slowly.
I'll download more from my notes from the session when I have more time in case it helps anyone. And I'll go back to visiting other threads more assiduously. I know how much it helps.
M:37 W:38 No kids Together since 2006, Married since 2010 EA discovered 06/07/2014 W moved out 06/08/2014