Tboned, I'm hugging you, too. (((tboned))) I cant imagine how I'd feel in the same situation behind my exH's car knowing where "she" lived. Since exH moved out in early May, I dont look into what he's doing with any friends, or with OW, or at his fb page or her fb page, or even my former stepdaughters fb pages.(i just send them snail mail notes and cards occasionally). It only hurts me to know his social life, and ignorance is bliss in this regard. I live in a big city (Dallas) so it's easy enough to 'keep my head down' as to his whereabouts.

Perhaps you should try to think of him perpetually being "on vacation" away somewhere.? Especially if you dont share kids together? Then that way, you'll not even think it might be him if you see a car like his "used to be.?"


M 56 H 52
M 13.5 T 15
S 28 twinStep Ds 24
ILYBNILWY BD 1/5/14 OW 4/11/14
Divorce petition efiled 5/5/14
Divorce final 7/8/14