"I truly know she wants to come back, there's no doubt in my mind and she really leaves me no room for any."

Sorry. I've heard that countless times before too.

What's going to happen next is that you'll be going through a honeymoon phase. The "feelings" will appear to be intense and even the sex will be great. That will last a few months and then reality will set in again. It's if she's still willing to stay after that initial euphoria wears off that will determine if she's going to still be with you.

Tell your W that if she is serious, then she needs to contact a marriage friendly counselor and make an appointment or sign you up for Retrouvaille or counseling with Michele. Then tell her to give you all the passwords to her phone and email and that you will be checking it regularly.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER