BTW, the thing with DB is that you need to change your strategy based on your situation. In your case LRT wouldn't necessarily work because YOU were the one that had multiple affairs. She has no reason to "miss" you or want to be with you because of that.
I see. What would you suggest MrBond? Maybe a little pursuit wouldn't hurt in this case. My DB coach even said a little pursuit is OK, because it would be a 180. If I just sprinkle it in gently (after multiple consecutive "good" days), it could help.
Her love language is acts of service. Thinking back, I realize that the more I give, the more she wants to give back (even now). Thoughtfulness is repaid with thoughtfulness. My love language is physical affection. She does not know about 5LL and I don't think I should tell her about it (way too soon) until she's hinted at possible reconciliation.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!
