Thanks Wonka, that helps for sure! I'd been thinking the same thing, if I never approach my W about things (doing things as a family, maybe trying to work on things etc) then how will I know where she's at?

She is planning on taking our kids on a short holiday this weekend. I'd love to go but I don't think asking to do so would be a good idea. Maybe just doing something else together with the kids would be enough for now?


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS