I could use some perspective....

My S18 just got accepted into a prestigious high-level program out of state. He would leave in about a month. H has no idea S18 even applied. After we S, we all reevaluated our goals, life, future.... And this opportunity came up. S18 is beyond the moon excited!

So my question...without expectation of an enthusiastic or any particular response from H, is it appropriate to at least communicate this new thing?

H is basically out of our lives for the past 3 months, although we live 1/2 mile away. I'm spinning a bit on this one.

I can argue both sides of the coin.

I'm just not sure where it falls in DBing.


M44, H44, both M before
M4 yrs, T6
BD 7/13 ILYB something isn't right with me
H att suicide 2/14
S 4/14
OW disc 5/14
D final 4/15