OK, in regards to the GAL and the 180s. I'm getting to the gym regularly. Starting to get up super-early to get there and back before she leaves for work. This is a double 180 because it shows that I'm not going to just be lazy, but that I'm up and going early. Plus I get the exercise and the energy bonus from that.

I finally got in touch with the soccer people, so I'm going to start that league right after labor day when their next season starts.

I've seen a solution based IC that is pro marriage twice. I am scheduled to see her again next week and will continue to do that as much as possible. I'm thinking every two weeks until I'm fully on-track or I can't afford it anymore. She also does couples work and the 4 free reset with the start of that, so if my W decided to give it a shot, we'd be all set.

I'm also reconnecting with some of my old friends. Working on it.

Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.