Oh yeah, Bob, there is no OM. I did the EA after I have up hope after doing the beg, plead, reason stupidity. Got my crap together again and I'm not quitting anymore.
GOOD to hear. Now, about those 180s and GAL....and your work on YOU....
any news?
Joe, we hammer 180s and GAL for one truly simple reason.....
they really help. They work. I gave you a list of my GAL while I lived in Alaska, with 3 kids including an infant. You pretty much said nothing if I'm not mistaken.
Well, actually You conceded that inertia is your "biggest problem" ---and then you said nothing more...
(so you let it remain your biggest problem??)
What are you going to do to start OVERCOMING inertia, since you identified it as a longstanding problem for you? And what about getting some good counseling?
Your behaviors over the past few years sound so apathetic, that it sounds to me like depression.
How about getting some professional help NOW, (and not waiting til you are on an actual ledge?)
I can't think of anyone who was successful in their DB efforts, who did not have a good IC. I know I Sure did.
I had a very good pro marriage solution based IC, AND I had a great DB coach, (Godsend!) and a great support system here, and in real life, and I saw a shrink a few times as well.
I literally cannot think of anyone who did this well, without help.
What do you think about getting a professional's help now?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
