Doing the LRT is supposed to be for when you have tried
EVERYTHING ELSE FIRST
AND
ALL those things have failed...THEN you do the LRT.
But I don't believe that you have tried much, for long, at all. I think you are looking for "simple" fixes. Things that require LESS of you, sure seem to appeal the most to you.
Despite words to the contrary about all the things you "would be" willing to do (if what??), you find reasons not to do any of them. I mean, your letter to her was mostly about YOUR pain.
If what I'm saying is true, What does that say about how marriage to you would be for her, even now?
Last edited by 25yearsmlc; 08/05/1405:22 PM.
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