Meghan, it's all in your tone. If you say in a calm, caring voice that you need him to move out now if that's what he needs to do, then you've protected your needs. Whether he reacts negatively to that is on him.
Hope you're ok.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15