Get information about what YOU can do to win her back, i.e.. does she enjoy massages or dining out? IF SO, buy her a massage (and learn how to give a good one)...and or take her out to the new restaurant in town. ASK her which she'd prefer doing some night soon.
Wouldn't this qualify as pursuing? I don't think she's comfortable spending 1 on 1 time with me at the moment. I think it's too recent since our last big argument (only a week ago). And our most recent "small" argument was on Friday morning (when she was upset that I wasn't upset).
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!