Hello all! Im new here but have been reading Michelles DB book for the past month. Heres my situation.
My wife and I had been separated for over a month now. She has been set on divorce since the begining of our separation. The reason is because, after a big argument that we both had, I failed to contain the argument between us and my family found out about the argument. Then I sided with my family against her. While my intentions were not to slander her name with my family, the fact that I vented out to my parents caused a chain reaction of dissapointment and resentment against my wife. Now, shes packing to move out by the end of this month. I deeply apologized to her by first acknowledging my faults and emphatizing with her feelings. To this day she still express to me how dissapointed, hurt, angry, and hateful she is against me, and I truly understand her feelings. Even our mutual friends have been involved. It is a true mess! She continues to lash at me pretty much every day, but I truly understand the way she is feeling and I dont argue with that. I truly love her and I am doing things that I believe will rebuild this severely damaged relationship. And by the way, I am not here to defend myself. So feel free to call me out. Any advice will be truly appreciated.
