I don't know any of his plans right now. I should probably ask, so I know and can work from there, but I don't want to seem like I'm pushing.

I talked to my parents today, and they're adamant that I tell him he needs to leave within 48 hours, as are a few friends. I'm torn - I think that would be healthy, but I don't want to. I can't keep letting myself be walked all over or keep dealing with all of these issues like this, and I don't think close proximity is helping us at all, but I also feel like demanding he leave so soon is going to anger or upset him, or make me seem like the bad guy, and not give me a chance to have him leave in a good place.


M - 34
H - 36
Together 10 years
Married 4 years
BD - March, 2014