Why do you think you're pressuring him? Whoever the bill is owed to sets the time line and this is different from "I'd like the dishes to be done when I get home." (just an example)
Are you angry? I think a bit of anger/disappointment would be justified as he's not doing what he promised.
What's your bottom-line, would you rather keep the peace and pay the bill or risk him thinking you're angry?
Whose problem is this, really? What would happen if he doesn't pay a few bills?
Is this indicative of your past R with him?
K, you have so much to offer, don't let him define you.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss