That seems fine, but I wouldn't offer to help.

Why do you think you're pressuring him? Whoever the bill is owed to sets the time line and this is different from "I'd like the dishes to be done when I get home." (just an example)

Are you angry? I think a bit of anger/disappointment would be justified as he's not doing what he promised.

What's your bottom-line, would you rather keep the peace and pay the bill or risk him thinking you're angry?

Whose problem is this, really? What would happen if he doesn't pay a few bills?

Is this indicative of your past R with him?

K, you have so much to offer, don't let him define you.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss