Dawgy, I feel like you are often on the verge of your own EAs. IMO focus on yourself without trying to find a replacement if you really want to try. I know GAL means finding friends and support for some people, but it seems like you walk a fine line.
I understand the need for companionship and an ear to listen to you though.
Me-45 W-44 S21, S18, D15 T-27, M-21 BD Jan 2014 PA revealed March 2014 In-house separation - April 2015 I filed - Aug 2015 She moved out Oct 2015