One thing I'm trying to do is more communication through actions instead of words -- because she's heard the words before. I want to do nice things for her because I really love her. This whole experience has made me realize how much I do love her. At the same time, I know I need to not too much (go overboard) because it's going to simply look like "tactics" to her. And I don't want to come off that way.
This is the best course of action.
Sometimes we have to love enough to let them go and wish them well on their journey. Trying to keep her where she doesn't want to be is about what's best for you, not her.
Do you love her that much?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
