I didn't really have a clue. I still don't know WHAT she wants. I do know now that I need to go big. I'm looking into jewelry. Also kicking around the idea of trading in the mini-van and getting a new Honda Pilot...which is what she really wants car-wise. And whatever I decide, I may need to go in for some big flowers.

I have to do something, it needs to be big. She's looking for the HUGE I'm sorry, I failed, I get it, I want to save this gesture. I'm going further into debt today.

Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.