Hi Stace , I made a new female friend who has been through the ringer and she gave me a little piece of advice that helped me feel better . " he who cares the least has the most power " and its very true . If your like me all you want is for him to come back and he knows this so that being said he holds all the pwoer . You need to gain so power and control back and thats where the DBing comes in , the detachment ( caring the least ) then you will gain a measure of control more and more . The more you detach the more the control increases . I know its very difficult to detach , Ive been struggling for months now but it does work .
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )
