I had to ask H to leave when it became clear he was not into working on the M. I could not stand to be around him for my own mental health. Also, there was no way I could effectively DB because I could not keep my emotions together being around him constantly. My impression is you are emotionally stronger than me, all things considered it sounds like you held it together quite well during the separation conversation. Obviously only you know what you're really up for but wanted to share how things played in my sitch. I'm so sorry you are at this place


M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14