I know this is a tough time for you, for me as well whether you like to believe it. I am trying very hard to stay together as friends and do the best I can to help you and us through this very emotional time period. I keep going back to the fact we did spend 19yrs together, and for the most of that time I cared deeply for you, and I would hope our last days together under the same roof can be amicable.
She still has a lot of feelings, probably conflicted, for you.
Why does she say, do the best I can to help you? Do you require a lot of help?
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You are right, it took more than just the infidelity to break me down. Some day you will truly understand what I've been through.
She wishes, even now, that you would "get it." We all want to be understood, to be heard and she's telling you that straight out. What is it you aren't getting?
I would guess you know, you just don't see it the same way she does or, it's not as important to you as it is to her.
25 usually does a good job of outlining those things. Did anything ring bells for you?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
