I'm assuming that you two have some things to work out financially, etc. If he doesn't have a plan for how he wants to separate yet then that also buys you time. He can go stay at a cheap hotel or on a friend's couch or whatever.

Don't think long term for the next week or two. There is a certain amount of chaos to your situation at the moment and things will be in a constant state of flux until they're not. During this period take care of yourself, watch, listen, and do not provide any input to his logistics beyond making sure your own needs are met. You'll have time to breathe and evaluate. Do not think long term at this time.

You can absolutely do this, Meghan. You absolutely can. And it won't be long from now that you'll find yourself through this stage and in the next one and you'll realize you're still standing. Have faith.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.