Well the sh!t has hit the fan...H just retained lawyer on 7/25 and did not tell me. I was checking our account and boom there it was. What an a$$!

The one thing I do know is he can't file as long as we are in a sexual relationship. We have to be at least 60 days... I knew there was a reason I was having sex with him all of a sudden. I know I'm mind reading but could he be feeling guilty?

We hadn't had sex for 3 months and 7/28 we started again...is he sabotaging what he is trying to do?

This has really made me angry! I can't believe he is really doing this, I know, it's just a piece of paper, but ....stupid MLC.

What do I need to look for in a lawyer?

Atsbaby
M:36 H:35
T: 19 M:12
S:11
D:9
BD: 5/4/14
Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her
8/19 admits OW
8/22/14 files D w/o telling me
9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile