Finding my way - part 3

[Maybell]

Do you know what his plans are?

What can you handle?

I'm not sure what to advise. My H asked for a separation so I took the kids to my parents' house for the week (his request coincided with spring break). When I got back it was still clear he wanted to go but he had done NOTHING to make it happen. We had an MC appointment the next day and I said if he was going to go then he had to get out because it wasn't fair to me to keep hanging around with that over my head.

It would be a 180 for you to ask HIM to leave for your mental health but you may not feel up for that. But you've done a ton of work on your apt -- why should he get the benefit of all that?

At the end of the day, do what you need to do to protect and heal yourself.

Sending you hugs & best wishes...