I agree, my guilt from being a WAS is allowing this to continue. I thought I had forgiven myself, but maybe I have not. I know I'm tired of this waiting for changes to happen. I still love my H, but we have no marriage now, not a marriage I want and heck we dont have any real R, other then parents to our son, we are friends I can say that, but I question how good of a friend my H is to me, he has to know this is not how I want to be treated by him. He acts like as long as he pays the bills, spend family time when he can, reaches out to me when he wants to...and all I can ask of him in return is bill money and things related to our son. NOTHING for me as his W.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
