Exactly! so the boys and I have decided that we are going to have a house warming party on Saturday night, we've invited family and friends, lots of kids. I thought stuff it, I'm always putting my life on hold, waiting to see what h does, right now he's doing his thong, so we are going to do our thing, and I'm not telling him, the boys can tell him on Sunday when they go to his place. I'm so excited, I'm getting my hair done, play lots of great music, enjoy my space and my friends and family. I'm standing for my marriage, but I'm not going to stay stagnant any more. so tomorrow I'm going to get the twins enrolled in swimming lessons (because they're now 3 I don't have to get in the pool with the anymore Yay!) then I'm doing make up for a friend's photo shoot in the afternoon, I'm really looking forward to that. Then it's family night and around we go again.
