Oh, Lisa. That letter would have been so hard to read. I feel for you. I suspect I'd have received a similar reply from my H (maybe I still will).

I don't think you should respond. Just get out there and GAL. Do what makes you feel happy and confident. You need to do that for YOU. Don't get stuck thinking you were a boring wife. Make yourself feel exciting. You have always come across as upbeat and cheerful in your posts so I am sure you will nail it. And maybe you will convince your H in the process that he wasn't seeing things clearly...


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014