The gift of time . . .

[gan]

Elsa, I think maybe you are my long lost twin. Our stitches sound so similar (baby procrastination, he signed 12 month lease, I stayed in our rental but now my lease is coming to an end, I too have been surprised by how natural DB has felt to me…concerned actually). On the other hand you and your H seem to be having frequent positive interactions and there does seem to be some encouraging signs from your H. I'm a ways off that right now - first real get together since separation coming up next week.

Know that I'm rooting for you, sis!