Had a good day yesterday. Made it to the gym.

DD asked to speak to H yesterday. I tried to distract her (since I'm dark), but it didn't work. I helped her facetime him on her ipad, and they spoke. He told her he missed and loved her, but she didn't respond to either. Weird cos if I don't respond when she says it, she tells me 'I say I love you, mummy, why are you not talking?'.

Anyway, I was wondering how others manage such requests from the children. Would H look at it as pursuing on my part, as if I put DD up to it (calling him, I mean)? Am I being silly by even wondering such a thing?

Last edited by tonibertha; 08/05/14 09:55 AM.

Me 33, H 34
T 15 (on and off, 7 years this stretch)
M 4
DD 3
OW July 2010, IDLY - Oct 2010

1st sep 28/5/11-14/8/11 (my idea)
OW confirmed 25/11/11 (H travelled with OW 26/11/11)
I moved out 3/12/11