Labug, you asked me if I was being who I wanted to be in that exchange and I gave you an emotional answer. But I've been over it a few (hundred) times and I've decided, yes, in fact I was being who I wanted to be. I don't want to pretend I'm ok with all this. I was honest in not knowing what on earth is going on and that I think he should be responsible for his relationship with his children. It makes me mad that he got that text and then asked me about it rather than reflecting on what he knows of his children and their situation and taking action. If it were possible to express my frustration less vehemently I would have, but I don't think it was. I AM frustrated, for a number of causes, and I'm tired of sweeping those things under the rug when they are causing my young children pain.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
