I agree with your SIL ..... I know I am new and all but that was my gut feeling as soon as I read it.
I have been Sep since NOV ... I have my S 3 days a week and the nights I dont have him I atleast get the goodnight talk in at 8 ... we have been good at that ... sometimes she will chat as I am chatting with him on speaker .. baby steps .. like so many I hope to learn more and apply to my sitch as so many others here seems to do and have success with
Hang in there .. you have many people including myself pulling for you.
