Jules, I can feel the SASSY thru the board.... I bet you look, and more importantly, FEEL sensational! (Cue the flirty hair flip)
And, regarding your H blaming you, I have done the same thing many, many times. Validated H and received the blaming gibberish of gobbledygook.
By definition, insanity could very well be attempting to validate the quintessential a$$hat.
Imagine if we spent half the time and energy they think we do, setting things up on purpose, JUST because it pushes their buttons..... That's some paranoid thinking, right there!
I don't usually put that much planning and energy into things I LIKE to do.
M44, H44, both M before M4 yrs, T6 BD 7/13 ILYB something isn't right with me H att suicide 2/14 S 4/14 OW disc 5/14 D final 4/15