Oh yeah, Bob, there is no OM. I did the EA after I have up hope after doing the beg, plead, reason stupidity. Got my crap together again and I'm not quitting anymore.
Me: 34 W:33 T: 10 M: 6 S: 6 D: 5 BD: 5/14 Still together(ish) Not giving up: 7/14 D talk has slowed, a lot. Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms. Slow and Steady wins the race.