Wife called, my mail came in that I was needing, but then she talked for a bit, says that its over between her and OM, and was venting a little to me about looking for a new place to live and everything and some stress at work. I don't know how to take everything as she just got back from visiting him. I tried to validate, but remained firm that I still felt disrespected. She says she understands and doesn't want to hurt me.... I didn't try to reason with her, but wake up sister, you are hurting me with this.
We are still getting together Wednesday to talk, but not really sure what things I should focus on or stay away from. Im just planning on listening a lot and validating so far, but expressing how I am standing up for myself and still not okay with OM, but if things are over and it doesn't happen again, we can work on friendship then. idk what I should do.
Me 31 Her 30 M 5.5 T 11 0 Kids Bomb drop: 4/13, EA+PA: 12/13 Separated: 12/13, 3rd chance of counseling:7/14
