LOL. If he can't blame the house or you, then what? He'll find something to blame until..he dies or can't blame anything else. That's how it works. He's an avoider. It is what it is, right?
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Sounds like we have quite a long "sentence" to serve.
From you last thread: No, you don't. You have to serve that sentence for only as long as you choose. He made his choices. You make yours. When you're ready, you'll choose to not serve that sentence any longer. Again, it is what it is.
The thing is, you feel emaciated when this stuff first happens. You try to reclaim the "balance" and get your "power" back. Its not about power though. It's about him. Period. You are what you are and who you are. He can't change that. Only you can, if you need to.
You have the key. It's up to you. It doesn't have to be out of anger, and I don't suggest that it should be. You can and should lovingly let him go. Completely. For your own sake and his.
When you're ready.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
