Just had the meeting with the school councilor about s7, I think it went really well, H came as well, as he really wanted to be there, he was few minutes late so was able to ask whether she thought it would be a good idea for the boys to meet ow, she seems to think it would be a good idea to let the dust settle first and get s7 talking first before introducing a new person, H did not bring her up at all, which I was waiting for, but hey that's OK, we've got some great strategies to put in place for s7, so I'll start tonight with him. Sent a quick thank you text to h for coming and he responded that he wanted to be there. and from the way the conversation went with the councilor, family night will stay in place, she thinks it's a great idea, and that we obviously care about each other and the kids, she also gave us the phone number for the family relationship line, that either of us could ring if we needed to talk.