Small changes...... tonight instead of having dinner ready at 5:30ish when H usually gets here dinner was ready at 5:15.... so the older boys were done eating and the twins were just finishing up when H walked in. I had cleaned up the kitchen and put all the leftovers away instead of leaving any out for H. I handed H the baby, made my iced tea, and took my spaghetti to the table.
ACTION to show H I didn't make dinner for him.... food is here if he wants to eat but I cook for the kids not him!
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction