Thanks, job.

H texted early the morning (day 8 of NIC yay me)

Sorry the phone bill was opened. I didn't see that it was yours when I opened it. (Rrrriiiiiiiiiggghhtt.....)
Do you have time today to talk about the realtor and sell prices?


I can after 5:30.What did you have in mind?

Talk and let you know my thoughts and you can let me know if you agree or not

I asked him to call my cell. This house thing is his problem. He wanted to stay in it, he wanted to S, he wanted to sell it..... BUT. He is irrational and impatient. He has threatened to just walk away from the house if it doesn't sell. His frustration level is high. I have let him sit in his tantrum for several weeks, including during repairs for the house. I did nothing to help.

I decided the thing that would benefit ME right now was to be accessible. Not to do anything for him, but help this get done since it benefits me. I also considered I'm not willing to just be difficult for the sake of throwing this responsibility in his face. I want to look at the facts, and do what's best...for me. If the new realtor is a better option....for me, then agree.

And he is better. The first one wouldn't do open house, and would only schedule showings by first calling him directly....very old school and not tech savvy. I'm hoping to have the house gone soon. It won't bring H back from lalaland. But it will be one more layer of the onion....one less thing he can blame his problems on. One less distraction from himself. He will find others, I'm sure. But this one has my name on it. As beautiful as it is, I'll be glad to see it go.


M44, H44, both M before
M4 yrs, T6
BD 7/13 ILYB something isn't right with me
H att suicide 2/14
S 4/14
OW disc 5/14
D final 4/15