Ok. Failed again. Went small today w/ gifts and she wanted a fuss. I was trying to not do the "try to make up for bday all at once" thing. I should have. She wanted cake and presents. So, tomorrow, cake and presents. A few, and good ones. Help!


Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.