Don't feel to bad about the 5LL. I read and did those last July. My WAW had apparently long checked out and actually had me stop doing them. It was a fools errand.
Me: 35 Her: 33 D : 16 S : 9 Together: 14 years Married: 12 She left 4/14/2014 Separated: 5/25/2014 OM Confirmed 7/2014 She filed 8/7/2014 I Filed 10/21/2014 Divorce final 2/12/2015
