Basically he admitted that he had been having feelings for other women for some time before our split, and that he feels the end of our relationship was inevitable as he lost his feelings of excitement, desire and that in love spark. He was guilty and sad about these feelings and maybe even in denial, because he had been previously happy with me. But he felt his interest in me dying, and from what he says, now it is completely dead.
So what is he doing to do when the excitement fades with the OW? As it is certain to, just like in any relationship. Once the honeymood period is over, and the relationship begins to take work and effort, he will realize the error of his ways. Might be too late by then, but rest assure, it will happen.
i really do not have anything magic to say that will make you feel better other than just give you words of encouragement and support to remember your own worth as an individual.
Best of luck to you!
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
