So here is where I am now. I spoke to my W today. She had sent me a text saying she wanted to talk. She called a little later, and we talked about the kids and school. She said she was willing to move to where I am, and let my kids go to school here. But she would want me to help (pay for) a house for her to live in, and get her a new car. As well as keep up with her current bills. She would look for a new job here, but doubtful she would get one to cover all the expenses. I said nothing really just listened. She wanted me to call her later today and let her know what I thought.
I gave it some thought, and sent a text saying we needed to talk about our marriage/divorce. She replied ok, and she had thought we were going to do that while I was up at her place last week. I told her we sat on her swing and stared at a firefly all night. She said I know. I then said i wondered how that firefly was doing. At any rate, I told her we needed to talk in person about all we had been discussing, as they are all interrelated.
I told her I would be willing to drive the kids up to her place in the morning. She said she will see if she can come down here tomorrow. I said either way.
Should make for an interesting day tomorrow...
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16